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Soft RSVP · Destination weddings

A soft RSVP for your save the dates.

Guests tap how likely they are to come. You get a real guest count for planning and budgeting, without a spreadsheet of guesses. Their actual RSVP comes later, closer to the wedding.

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Setting it up is free, with no card needed. Sharing it with your guests is $19.99 USD a month after a 3-day free trial.

What your guests see on your wedding website

What you see

Your guest count, from your guests.

No more guessing who's 70% likely to come. Every answer adds up to an expected guest count and an upper limit, ready for the things you need a number for long before the real RSVPs:

  • How many rooms or villas to hold
  • Numbers for your venue and caterer
  • A budget you can trust

How it works

Three steps. No spreadsheet.

  1. 01

    Switch it on

    One switch on your RSVPs page. Keep RSVPs closed until you're ready for them.

  2. 02

    Send your save the dates

    Each household gets its own link or QR code to put on its save the date. It opens your wedding website, with no app or account.

  3. 03

    Watch the number

    Guests tap how likely they are to come, and plus-ones are counted. When you open RSVPs, each household's real reply replaces its early answer.

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And the rest of your wedding, in the same place.

  • Your wedding website

    The schedule, travel details and each household's own invitation.

  • RSVPs and meal choices

    Each household replies for everyone in it, event by event.

  • Rooms guests pay for

    Guests choose from the rooms you've arranged and pay their share.

  • The whole weekend

    Welcome drinks to farewell brunch, with replies for each event.

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Find out who's really coming.

Try it free

Setting it up is free, with no card needed. Sharing it with your guests is $19.99 USD a month after a 3-day free trial.