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Who pays for what?
List the costs of your wedding abroad and choose who covers each one. See what you pay, what each guest pays and the wording for your website.
The costs
You pay
€23,650
In all
Each guest pays
€813
€48,750 across 60 guests
For your wedding website
What's covered: airport transfers, welcome drinks, wedding day. What guests pay for: flights, rooms, farewell brunch (we cover half), about €813 each.
Let guests pay their share online
On Marrythere, guests pay for their rooms by card on your wedding website, straight into your own Stripe account. Cover part of the cost yourselves if you like, and see who's paid at a glance.
Start planning freeQuestions couples ask
What do guests usually pay for?
Most often their own flights and rooms, while the couple covers the wedding itself. Many couples also cover a welcome drink, transfers or part of the rooms. There's no rule: what matters is telling guests early and clearly.
How do we tell guests?
Put it on your wedding website before people book, so nobody is surprised. The tool writes a short version you can copy.
Can guests pay us for their rooms?
Yes. On Marrythere, guests pay for their rooms by card on your website, straight into your own Stripe account.
Plan your wedding abroad in one place
Your website, RSVPs, guest rooms and payments, all connected. Setting it up is free, with no card needed.
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